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Romancing Your Man After Five, Ten, or
Fifteen Years!
You've been together for years and you can honestly
say you're in love. It's a wonderful feeling to be in love, but there will
come a time when the fuzzy feeling will wear thin. Being together with the
man of your dreams is quite a feat. Even if he is everything you've ever
wanted in a man all relationships take hard work, dedication, trust, and
honesty. If you've made it 5, 10, 15 years, or more, then you know exactly
what it takes to remain committed to your man.
One thing that is typical for couples that have
been together a long time is to fall into a 'routine'. You eat at a certain
time every day. You go to bed at the same time every night. You wake up on
a schedule, and you get home from work every day at exactly 5:03 - where
you do the exact same evening activities together. This can be great for
some couples, that thrive under continuity and routine, but for others it
can be a death sentence.
Unfortunately, the vast majority of people in
the world require more then the 'humdrum' that life presents us with. Otherwise,
we get bored. Boredom is never a good sign, and can lead to unfaithfulness,
mistrust, and other things that are potentially dangerous to the relationship
of a lifetime. Most men like romance and spontaneity. They enjoy being surprised
and pampered by their mate. It is up to you to put forth that effort for
the sake of your relationship.
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If you have been in a relationship for years and find yourself watching new
lovers on the street and feeling envious then this article is for you! There
is no reason why you need to envy others when you already have something
they are looking for. You just need to get that 'feeling' back.
The following tips are geared towards getting
the romance back into your life. You do not have to spend hundreds (or
thousands!) of dollars to impress your man. You can do so just by knowing
his likes and putting forth a little effort.
Know His Interests
By now you probably know his interests. What
are his likes and dislikes? If you were going to do something that he enjoyed
what would it be? Is he athletic, or more artistic? Does he prefer going
to the movies, or the opera? You can plan a romantic evening by knowing what
he is interested in. Perhaps he is more laid back and into sports. If so,
you can go watch a local sports team play after a casual dinner out, or watch
his favorite team on the big screen after you prepare his favorite home-cooked
meal.
If he's more artsy perhaps you were planning
to purchase tickets to the opera, or the new musical coming to town. You
can see the show and then have a romantic dinner at your favorite restaurant,
or even at home. Ultimately, his likes and dislikes should dictate what you
do for the evening. If you like routine you may want to work a special night
into your routine where you pamper him. He's sure to appreciate the effort
and thought you put into his special evening.
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Sweeten
Him Up
Every person likes some kind of candy or dessert.
If you make his favorite sweet-tooth item, and surprise him with it after
a long day of work, not only will he feel pampered he will know how devoted
you are to both him and your relationship. Often, it is the little things
we do that stick out the most. You do not have to prepare some lavish celebration
making it known that he is yours and that you are his every day of the week.
You just need to come up with little ways to keep him happy and satisfied.
Rub the Pain Away
After a long day of work nothing feels better
then a back massage. If you are good with your hands you can definitely rub
away the tension in his back. Even if you aren't very good at it, the effort
will be appreciated. Of course, back rubs are quite intimate in nature. When
you have him take of his shirt rub oil on his back - and soon he will be
experiencing pure bliss. Your heavenly hands may actually be a prelude that
leads into other kinds of foreplay.
Wham Bam Thank You Man Won't Cut It
Every once in a while a quickie is a fun necessity
to relive tension caused by chaotic daily events. The reason it is called
a 'quickie' is because it is quick. It is not meant to be the average
sexual encounter, nor should it be. If you seem more comfortable with quickies
your lover will soon be bored, and, chances are you will, too. It's not worth
it if he's wanting to head to greener pastures - especially when you are
fully hoping to make it work. This is why it is important to give him the
whole package… and then some.
One thing to consider is how much better you
will get with practice. So, it is quite possible to believe that you only
get better over time. Make it a personal goal to strive to be better then
you were the last time you had sex. Alternate positions, try new things,
incorporate toys for variety, and always include some form of foreplay for
ultimate satisfaction. If he is always remarking about how wonderful you
are then you've definitely done your best for the evening. Not every man
is Casanova. However, he will appreciate the effort because it will be clear
you have his best interests at heart.
Being romantic does not have to be a difficult
task. It doesn't always have to include sex, but intercourse is a part of
the package he receives when you become an official couple. Ultimately, if
he's satisfied in - or out - of bed, but not satisfied on both levels, he
may be considering finding a new man, and as long as you've been together
it may not be worth losing him in the end.
The Two Secrets To Great Sex - Each and Every
Time
Are some men just better
lovers than others? Yes, and no! What makes anyone a good lover all boils
down to two very basic sexual moves. Number one is 'desire'. When someone
is so ravenous for you that you feel they could just eat you up, you'll
have the best sex with them ever - and over any other lover. A very real
trick to making your lover satisfied in bed is to show uncontrollable lust
and desire for them. Be a lover who is uncontrollably
HOT for
HIM. Display a lust for him that
is incomparable to that of any of his previous lovers, and give him the
impression that you have an insatiable, unquenchable thirst for
him. Remember, nothing will make us more attracted to another than
their own attraction to us will! If you appear to not be able to get
enough of this desirous and delicious man this will make him feel very
sexy and wanted and desired and SATISFIED! You have become a very skilled
lover, and you've mastered the first secret to making your man feel satisfied.
And what's this first secret?...AGAIN, desire - making him feel like
he is the most delicious man you have ever had.
Secret number two is 'enthusiasm'. The second
secret to satisfying a man is probably the most valuable secret you will
ever learn. Certainly, it has been my most valuable sexual lesson.
Enthusiasm for your mate - not just enthusiasm for the sex act, itself,
but for the sex act with him. Remember the word 'PULL'. P.U.L.L.
Pure Uncontrollable Lustful
Longing for him. Pure lust for that awesome sexual being
you are about to conquer and devour. If you are not totally into your mate...
if you are not showing him just how desirable he is... if you are not
enthusiastic to the point where he doesn't feel like the god of all your
dreams... if you are not displaying extreme and overt want and desire and
enthusiasm for gorgeous him-his feel, his smell, his taste... then he is
not going to be sexually fulfilled. Bottom line. Your man wants you to BLOW
HIS MIND with your lust for him! He not only wants to be stroked, kissed,
and caressed-he wants you to be so INFLAMED with desire for him that you
take him as if he were the HOTTEST man in the world and you just can't
control your undying lust for him. Devour him with passion. Moan
in ecstasy... but only in ecstasy for him. Use his name! Don't say,
"mmmm, that feels good" .. say "GAWD, (place his name here)
...MMMmmmmMmm - YOU JUST FEEL SO DAMNED GOOD,
MAN!"
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